Self Worth

Monday, March 21, 2005

We're self-conscious beings whether or not we'd want to admit it. To varying degrees, we worry too much of other people's expectations, opinions and perceptions. We become too bothered that we eventually become unsure of our own capabilities and all sorts of doubts start to sink in. We try so hard to change and please others that in the process, we somehow end up losing our sense of self. Therefore, I've gradually adopted the "I don't care" mentality into my life. I know it's not the best solution but it effectively frees me from all the stress of having to think and worry too much. As much as we try to come up with valid reasons or explanations or excuses for everything and anything, we can only do so much to change other people's feelings towards us. It's not about being indifferent or apathetic. It's about getting tired of all the crap. It's about reaching a saturation point of not wanting to be bothered by such trivial and senseless matters. It’s about getting rid of all the excess baggage and feeling much lighter about life and ourselves.