On Bending Rules

Monday, June 27, 2011

Yeah, yeah...ok fine,  sige na I get it. The higher ups have the advantage - or power - to bend the rules for whatever reason or in most cases, for whatever self-serving purpose. Read: (1) to cover their asses, (2) to save face or (3) to make themselves look good.

I totally get it BUT please do not shoot the messenger especially if he/she was just doing what was asked of him/her. Most importantly, please do not turn the tables and make it look as if the messenger wasn't doing his/her job right. Heller.

Tsk tsk to think, you were supposed to set a good example. It's not a good sign either if the person in charge tries to cover up for the erring person slash "boss". Tsk tsk, it's such a shame, REALLY. To begin with, the rules were very clear. You can't interpret it any differently that what it is already written in fine bold print. And the truth of the matter is, kababawan na nga yung rules eh. If you ask me, it's not even that much of a big deal. Petty is what it is. It is something that should be so easy to do. Geez. I can only imagine what it would be like if you guys were running the friggin' country! Scary.

Occasional bending of the rules is fine, but not at the expense of others. More importantly, should you get caught or be called on it then you should be ready to face the consequences. That's why, it's those people at the top who are still humble enough to owe up to their mistakes - no excuses, no fault-finding, no finger pointing - who I admire the most. It's these people who deserve to be at the top, who should be lauded, and who should be called leaders in the true sense of the word.

No wonder I've heard not so good stories about you. I get it now. You totally do not deserve the corner office. You don't have the credentials, neither do you have the makings of a good leader.

[POST EDIT: 07/05/2011]
"When things go wrong, look at yourself first. Don't instinctively blame others or the circumstances - or use them to cover your behind. Be the leader; stand stall, and take the hit. If you accept the glory, be willing to accept blame." - taken from Donald Trump's Trump 101

Belieber!

Friday, June 24, 2011

I finally got to watch Justin Bieber's Never Say Never. It's official. Hold your breath, hold your breath. I am now a BELIEBER. So much so, I've just finished downloading his albums. Yes, albums as in plural. He has an acoustic version of his 1st album, My World 2.0, just the way I like it - his acoustic version is better, it's not as pop-ish.

I still don't find him cute though. I don't think he's a great singer either. Hmmm I guess just like the rest of his gazillion of fans all over the world, there's just something about him. Cliche as it may sound, he does have a certain charm to him. *Blush* *Blush* Hihihi :P

For me, I think more than anything else, I was very inspired by his story. I've always had a fascination for success stories (i.e., from Google, Facebook, Starbucks et al. to Warren Buffett, THE Donald Trump to Malcolm Gladwell's Outliers or Robert Kiyosaki's Rich Dad Poor Dad). Justin Bieber's story was simple. No drama. It amazes me how he was able to live his dream and how at such a young age, he has become to be one of the most successful people in the world. I feel inspired.

Sometimes I wonder just how lucky one person can get. I still believe in skills and talent. More so, I believe in attitude and character, but I really believe that luck and timing is very important too, and one which we, unfortunately, have no control of.

WTH

Thursday, June 09, 2011

Whoaaa. I think I just had my eureka moment at the office today. It should be more of a good thing though, if you ask me. I don't feel like going into further details...for now. What to do, what to do next?

THE Royal Wedding

Sunday, May 01, 2011

Okay so yeah I know that everyone has an opinion and most probably has already said their piece by now about this whole hullabahoo that is aka THE Royal Wedding aka THE Wedding of the Century aka THE Wedding of Will and Kate. Sorry but I just can't help it, I have to comment too.

Growing up...I don't think I've ever dreamt of being a princess or marrying a prince for that matter. I guess I just wasn't your typical girly girl, if you know what I mean. Heck, I don't think I even ever thought about what my dream wedding would be like. Sa madaling salita, I don't have a "dream" wedding in mind. And so this whole Royal Wedding has changed my sentiments, it got me to thinking what would it be like to be swept off my feet by my prince charming! Cheeeesy. But cheese aside, it would be really nice...don't you think? Sigh. I must say Kate is one very very very lucky girl! Who would've thought that being the commoner that she is, she would end up being a princess! It amazes me. We shouldn't be afraid to dream because after all libreng mangarap! Sometimes it wouldn't hurt to dream big, to dream of the impossible dream, sabi nga nila diba. Fairy tales still do come true. In the past, intermarriage outside the Royal family would've probably been close to impossible. It's always good to see how societal customs and norms have evolved through time and how societies have become more open and accepting of one other despite their differences; having an open mind is always a good thing. I strongly believe in timing too. Case in point, how Kate and Will got together. I believe that one's date with destiny is all about being at the right place at the right time.

Just Go With It

Monday, April 18, 2011

I'm not a big fan of Adam Sandler just because I don't like slapstick. Slapstick movies are such a waste of time. But since my officemate highly recommended Adam Sandler and Jennifer Anniston's Just Go With It (note: Hangover was bumped off his no.1 all time fave movies list daw lol), and well since my sister recommended it as well, I gave it a shot. And the verdict is...[enter drumroll please]...it was surprisingly nice and very entertaining. I thoroughly enjoyed it and thus, I'm highly recommending it too. Here's the thing, I'm not a fan of HBO, Cinemax or those movie channels on cable - that's because I don't like watching movies reruns - not unless it has been over a year or two at the very least. I don't save copies of downloaded movies in my laptop either - with the exception of two movies only, which are The Ugly Truth and The Proposal. Just Go With It is a feel good movie. It is not your typical in your face kilig kind of rom com movie. It is very subtle in the sense that the characters kinda grow on you. Case in point, I have 3 saved movies now in my laptop. Yeah...I liked it THAT much.

LSS

Sunday, April 17, 2011

For my happy song of the moment, I'm giving a special shout out to Taio Cruz's Telling the World - from the movie soundtrack of Rio. Mmmmm... (in case you're wondering, that's me attempting to hum. Fail! Lol).

YES!

Thursday, April 07, 2011

YES to...

* in no particular order

1. SERENITEA! I do not like toffee and/or caramel flavors but I surprisingly find myself loving Serenitea's Hokkaido topped with pearl and crystal (crystal = nata de coco). It's too close to call but I think Serenitea trumps Happy Lemon. I want to try the other Serenitea drinks. I'm going to try their Okinawa drink on my next visit.

2. VAMPIRE DIARIES!! Oh yes I'm going to get my weekly dose of Damon again. Whoopee. <3

3. REGULAR EXERCISE. Gotta start walking/running again. Tsk tsk. For starters, I've been taking the stairs at the office every morning. Mind you, that's all the way up to the 9th floor but of course only whenever I'm in flats hehe. The good news is I'm starting to have more endurance now. You should've seen me on my 1st try! Lol.

4. SPLURGES. Woot! woot! Thanks to my mom for buying spankin' new flats. Note to self: gotta invest in more comfortable shoes. Yes? Definitely yes.

And...thanks to my dad for agreeing to a brand new watch. I've been wanting one for a loooooong time. I don't have it yet though. I'm still waiting for the store to call me because they don't have available stocks anymore. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

5. ANGRY BIRDS. Yeah I'm a late bloomer; everyone's probably gone through all the Angry Birds series already. I'm playing Angry Birds Rio, it's their latest series and it's already at the top of the iTunes AppStore.

6. BULL MARKET. I hope the trend stays UP so that I can have more savings! Speaking of which, gotta cut on my expenses. I'm going to swear off Zara until month end hehe. My expenses in March skyrocketed. Yikes. So far though, I'm doing a much better job in April. On that note, yes to SAVINGS!

7. The Ugly Truth and The Proposal re-runs. I'm not a huge fan of re-runs but these are my 2 exceptions. :))

8. DASHING DIVA on a work day. Yes...on a workday. I can't bilibit myself! Lol.

9. TIPPING POINTS. And thus, NOT being afraid to speak my mind and finally be able to be true to my feelings once and for all - even if it means having to open up (read: confide and trust) in someone for the first time...

10. BEING THE BIGGER PERSON (figuratively speaking, well hopefully not literally haha). And that is...NOT stooping to the "babawness" slash "pettiness" of people and/or situations...I say no to bubble bursting. Go mind your own bubble, please! Ugh.

Lastly...YES to more POSITIVITY. Steady good vibes lang here on out...

P.S. And since it's a Thursday, YES to TGIF! :P

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Junior Masterchef is soooo inspiring. Amazing kids, unbelievable even. It makes me want to quit my day job and start cooking full time. Yeah seriously.